The Landscape of History: How Historians Map the Past
by John Lewis Gaddis
Over the past three years I have had a most excellent opportunity: my host versus home country paradigm became a triangle - US, France and Japan - and then a quadrangle with the addition of Belgium as a fourth point of reference For someone who as a callow youth could hardly imagine a life outside the Pacific Northwest of the US, I can only look back as I pass the half-century mark and marvel at how I ended up here or there and how completely unprepared I was for each trip. I was a green water vessel shoved out into blue water hoping to dock at a friendly port on the other side of a vast ocean. So far, no shipwrecks. Which, I assure you, was not at all due to my skills as a navigator.
A very small vessel, indeed. Insignificant, in fact, in the larger scheme of things. Every day millions of people set off on their own journeys to distant shores. It has been both a pleasure and a relief to turn my attention to them and not spend my days pondering my own small part in the late 20th/early 21st century migration flows in this globalized world of ours. Looking for the larger patterns allows one to return to the Self with a sense of connection, relieved of the burden of thinking that one is special or unique.
I have been an emigrant and an immigrant. I have also been an expatriate. Twice, in fact. Both times in Japan. My first time here was spent in Tokyo where I worked for a French multinational. This, my second time around, has been dramatically different. I am what is referred to as a "trailing spouse" and a couple of years ago that term and the circumstances around our move to Osaka did not sit well with me. And I did not hesitate to say so (and other people did not hesitate to tell me that I was being something of a pill and a killjoy which was hardly helpful.)
There is some truth to that but looking back I have compassion for the woman I was. At the time I was still recovering from treatment for cancer and I was considering how to get back into the French workforce. I was nervous about being so far from my oncologist and I wondered what a few more years not working would do to my future job prospects. All very legitimate concerns. And I really have to wonder why they were not taken more seriously. I suspect that they would have been if I had been a man. Surely one of my spouse's co-workers would not have touted getting his nails done on a regular basis as one of the benefits of the expat life.
Once I got over "living in the wreckage of the future" I finally got the gumption to make something of my time here and there. The most visible accomplishment of my time here was my research which led to me getting my MA in International Migration. But there have been other less tangible benefits which I only became aware of when I realized that our time here was getting short.
Top of the list would have to be enjoying Japan. The first time I was here (in Tokyo) I was working long hours and traveling to Korea and China. There was no time for much else because I had a project to run and deadlines to meet. This time around I have had all the time in the world to travel around Japan. I have been back to Tokyo but I also visited Okinawa, Miyajima, Hiroshima, Kyoto, Nara and numerous other places in the Kansai region. I have hiked in the mountains, slept in a temple guesthouse, visited markets, wandered through many fine museums and fought my way through the crowds to see the magnificent floats at festivals. And, of course, there are the gardens which make my heart sing. At every one I took mental notes for my own little bit of earth back in Versailles.
Tourism? Absolutely. And the very best kind to boot because there was no rush, no plane to catch in a week. Unable to see everything in one trip? No matter because there was always time to return. I've been to Nara at least four times and each visit was a revelation though there was some continuity because I always stay at the Nara Hotel which is, hands down, the finest hotel I've ever stayed in.
|Nara Hotel, Kyoto|
No one ever asks if I work (or insinuates that I should be working), there are no tense interviews with the public administration, no struggles to fit in because I don't need to fit in here except in the most superficial way. With only a few very rare exceptions people are civil and pleasant. And if they are bothered by my inability to communicate in Japanese, the only sign that they care one whit is the real pleasure and surprise on their faces when the younger Frenchling steps up and starts translating.
Integration where I actually live is something else. It is indispensable because I have to meet certain expectations in order to get a job, have friends, be on good terms with my neighbors, go to mass and confession, enjoy a dinner party, read contracts, deal with civil servants and so many other things big and small. This is the pebble in my shoe and I am subtly reminded of it every hour of every day in France.
Granted it's a very very small pebble these days because, well, time has ground it down to next to nothing. And I would never have noticed, I think, that it was still there if I hadn't remarked on its complete absence here in Japan. So it has been something of a relief to be in a place where expectations are low, low, low given my status as a short-timer. Never has my own insignificance felt so good.
Just a few more months and this vessel will sail once again (Air France will do the navigating): one small unimportant craft in a sea of over 200 million migrants in the world today. Looking forward to being back full-time in my first country, the country of my heart (that darn pebble be damned). Japan has served its purpose and home is just over the horizon. Vive la France!
|My Garden in Versailles|